Human Relations.

Humans are the only living beings in this world who can express their thoughts ,emotions ,ideas and feelings through the medium of language or through gestures.The very basis of human relations is, this ability to communicate effectively.
                 Human relations are very  delicate and intricate.This matter is to be dealt with very carefully  by everybody,lest person to person or country to country relationships  get strained.Egos,anger, jealousies,hatred,domination,violence,injustice and fraud are the factors which cause strained relationships.Love ,friendship,mercy,helpfulness,tolerance,non-violence,justice and kindness are the characters which promote the human relations.But these qualities should be present in both the parties.,to promote good relations.Unfortunately, no such ideal situation exists, in the real world.Then ,how to develop and optimize good relationships.
   I feel that, the following points will be helpful.
     Understand well the other person's viewpoint.
     Understand and analyze the situation in which the other person is in.
      Before we expect a certain behavior from someone,show similar behavior.{love or friendship}towards him or her..
     Express yourself well without any communication gap.
     Extend friendly and helpful hand .
     Create a peaceful atmosphere around you, as far as possible.
      Ignore certain  qualities which you don't like in the other person.
          In spite of all this if the other person's behavior is bothering us we should either avoid him or ignore him. Think of other possible solutions.But never loose confidence.One need not put his happiness in the hands of others.

I have been focusing on social issues and sharing my views through this blog with the hope that at least  few people  agree with me and do their best to change the situation. I my self ,am trying my level best ,acting within my limits.Today,I would like to discuss the biggest problem,that is wastage of food.
      Today the world's population is growing by leaps and bounds.But the rate of food production is not competitive enough to meet the increasing demand for food.Hence preserving food and avoiding wastage is the need of the day.There are several  ways in which food is being wasted everywhere in the world.In the houses,restaurants,parties and wedding celebrations.starting from the house ,we often  find that some food items are spoiled in the fridge.cooked food is also wasted in some houses,due to lack of proper awareness on food management.The hotels and restaurants are wasting tons of food everyday either in the kitchens or in the form of leftovers in the plates of customers. In the name of parties,people order more than what they can eat and waste food.Especially  in the  weddings ,innumerable varieties of food are served.It is only a feast to the eyes but not a feast in the real sense.Invitees of the wedding also waste much food than what they eat.Especially in the buffet system wastage is alarming..When people are starving ,it is unpardonable mistake on our part to waste a single grain also.
       If we really think over it .we can start from our home to avoid wastage of food and teach our children too.We can limit the number of dishes we serve in the parties and weddings.Every minute we should be conscious about food management.
       There  is another situation where food is wasted is ,when there is plenty of yield from a crop and farmer has no facilities and knowledge on food preservation.Such cases should be identified and taken care of  by voluntary associations.Let us do our level best to avoid food wastage. It is equally important to see that it reaches the needy.

Idle time of women.

75% of Indian middle class women ,especially the previous generation ,who are in their middle age are housewives.Some of them worked for some time  and stopped working due to personal reasons or family problems.Most of them spend their time watching dragging and boring TV serials,wasting their valuable time.This makes their brains idle and non functioning.Some women will be so engrossed in the serials that they feel the characters in them are the members of their family.There is a need for somebody who can organize these women{who are willing] and give them a direction to convert their idle time into productive one so that they can utilize their valuable time and earn  too.
       In fact government is providing training and financial support through various schemes to the rural poor women.Unfortunately, there is nothing of this sort for the benefit of middle class women who strongly want to do something to earn but there is no financial or technical support available.They can't afford the high interest rates charged by the banks nor can they take training paying high fee.
            If the idle time of this group in the society is organized well,we can make wonders.Productivity will increase and the society will prosper.In fact there are many such women who are in need of money but directionless.If somebody funds them, there will certainly be a change and betterment in the lives of deserving middle class women..If any one  has similar views please share with me.

My thoughts over global warming.

hi,
 There is a long pause between my previous post an now. Many things happened around us in this period.Most importantly there is a fast change in the environment around us. we are witnessing increased number of natural calamities everywhere.As everyone says, the reason is global warming.But why don't we ever make an effort to stop this ,at individual  level.We always expect  the government to do some thing.As an individual,one can stop using plastic carry bags and carry jute or cloth bags.One can stop buying plastic toys,water bottles and containers.Try to minimize the use of plastic.Try to walk or do cycling at least for short distances instead of using a vehicle. Reduce the  use of Ac.We can  even reduce the use of chemicals especially cosmetics.we can form colony clubs to improve greenary  and find other possible ways to reduce environmental pollution. let everyone of us try sincerely to reduce pollution,to give atleast a livable earth to our children.If each one of us follow this ,there will certainly be a great change.             
              This evening when I was watching the pictures and sad tales of people in Kedaarnaadh , Uttaraakhand, my mind  & hart wished me to write something about it ,with a small hope to change  the situation around us.